Maria DeAngelo's

 Letters  and Adventures From South Africa 2008

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3/18 Maria has been having health issues and we would appreciate your prayers!

5/8/08 Maria and Dr. David Grewar will be married in Richmond, MO
on Feb. 14, 2009
Please send your physical address to gloryridge@myturbonet.com
if you would like an invitation.

Maria and David on Safari with Guests from USA


Maria (middle) with South African friends in the sand dunes.

The guy say  "Those are sharks down there and WE ARE going SWIMMING."
Maria says, "YOU go swimming, NOT ME!"
They DID!

May 8, 2008

Dear Friends and Family,
Greetings from Graaff-Reinet! The holidays are over and everything is up and running again with much news from the front lines! Many things have been happening in our small town since my last newsletter, so my apologies for the book I am about to write.
The Easter holidays started on March 21st and ended on April 13th. I spent most of my holiday traveling and seeing new places and meeting new people. I also got the chance to visit new churches, experience new ministries, and participate in different outreaches. It was such a blessing from God to have a few weeks of relaxation and rejuvenation. However, I am back to work with plenty of news!
The youth work is going extremely well. I am teaching character to grades 5-7 as a part of life orientation. Character is such an important building block for children. It is hard, however, to teach and train kids to be people of character when it isn’t demonstrated at home. Please pray that their family lives will be influenced by their good character! Teaching religious instruction was quite enlightening too as the children are not familiar with basic Bible knowledge. We have been going through basic Bible stories straight from the Word and they are really enjoying it!
As for learning, you can also pray for me! I am beginning to understand more and more Afrikaans. However, speaking it is a different story! I normally sound like a Mexican trying to sound like someone from Brooklyn. You can imagine how the kids like to tease me! 
The senior youth group is also growing in leaps and bounds! Our meetings are staying between 25 and 35, however, their hearts are what are really starting to grow! One of the greatest blessings about this group is the fact that probably 25 of them are boys! Steve has been a great aid lately in teaching lessons and stirring their hearts.
The junior group is also doing well. They just completed their first mission trip! We have been talking a lot about sharing our faith and spreading our light around, so they decided that they should do something about it. About 20 of them cut out little cards and put encouraging Bible verses on them. They were then instructed to go in groups of two into the town and personally hand people these cards. They were gone about 30 minutes and when they arrived back to “base” they all had the most exciting stories to tell. Some told of how a person cried or said that it was just what they needed. Some people didn’t want to take the cards because they thought they must pay for them and they didn’t have any money. It was so thrilling to see their young hearts at work!
My girls group is my greatest joy, however. We have now become so large that we decided to multiply the group into two; grade 7 on Monday and grade 5 and 6 on Thursday. They are such a great group of girls. At the beginning of cell group I had 20 of them that didn’t have Bibles. Being blessed by God, a woman in the community was kind enough to donate 20 new NIV Bibles. They were so grateful! We are getting ready to do some new outreach projects. They are preparing to visit people at the local hospital and old age home.
Weekends are also very busy for me. On Sundays we take kids with us to the surrounding churches and at night help lead music at the Methodist evening service. As you can see there are lots of things going on!
I would also like to mention that Pastor Maart Joseph is doing extremely well. His leg has healed very nicely and so have his spirits. I believe he is now in the process of receiving an artificial leg. Praise God for all the answered prayer!
With all of the good news and joy, there are also lots of prayer needs. I have included some things that I would greatly appreciate being lifted up to God. Sometimes I feel weak and unable to help or even understand the circumstances around me. I need faithful prayer warriors (all of you at home) lifting me up and fighting on my behalf. I know that I am too small to change the problems that face me, but my God is a big God and He has a plan!
The first thing I ask you to pray for is my physical body. My health has not been in tip-top shape since I landed in South Africa. I have been to the doctor and he believes that my body is just busy adjusting to a new climate, new germs, new foods, new worries, new friends, and new family. Please pray for physical well being on my behalf.
Second, I would ask you to pray for the spiritual body of my students and staff. Many children do not grow up in Christian homes and are not Christians. The few that have given their lives to the Lord are not committed and do not understand that the grace of Christ is what saves them, not their works. I have not only experienced this with children, but with adults as well. Even the ancestral spiritualism is practiced among many of the Christian children and adults.  Please pray that the veil would be lifted from their eyes so that they could see Jesus. Pray that there would be a dramatic break from “being a good person” to a deep relationship and love for Jesus Christ! Ask God to break the strongholds of ancestral tradition and religion and that Christ would reign as Lord over their hearts!  
Third, I would ask you pray for South Africa as a nation. Major power and energy problems are a current crisis for the country. The government has recently been turning off the country’s electricity supply for 2-4 hours a day 3-4 days a week. This is quite a problem for the country’s economy. Pray for the leadership of South Africa to make wise decisions and to lead with integrity.
Last, but not least, I would ask you to continue to pray for Graaff-Reinet as a city. In recent months we have witnessed many crimes and acts of corruption. In Graaff-Reinet there is a river that makes the shape of a horse shoe around the town. It has been many years since the river has ever flowed. Small bands of people have been living in the bush and the dried up river bed for many years, often causing trouble and fear to people who venture near. The river flows out of a dam that is holding a massive lake on the outskirts of the city. In March a local woman was murdered on the drive that passes over the river and up the mountain. Her two children are my pupils. The town was devastated. In following weeks two men from the river were arrested for her murder. However, the authorities still did not clean out the river and its inhabitants. So in late March webegan to have heavy rains. It rained almost every day for weeks and in early April the entire town awoke to find that the lake was full and the dam was overflowing!!! The dam has not been opened for over 20 years! The whole town went to see the rush of water over the dam wall and the sound of the river filling up below! God sent a cleansing flood! Continue to pray that a cleansing flood of the Holy Spirit would wash over the hearts of the people like the rain washed over the dry river bed.
After all the news and prayer requests, I would just like to thank you for the wonderful letters I have been receiving. It is the highlight of my day to read a story from home! I apologize for not replying immediately, for there are lots of letters and very little time! Yet hearing from home is always a great pleasure.
Thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement! It is appreciated more than you know!
I will write soon with any more news that comes my way!
Until then, may God bless you and keep you close to his heart until we meet again!
In Him,
Maria
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February 29, 2008
                                                                                
Dear Friends and Family,
I send my apologies for the tardiness of my letter. However, I finally have some news (and some time) for everyone! It’s a challenge to find a few moments to sit down and write a letter, but I know you are all wondering what’s going on.
I can describe my time here in one word: busy. Steve and Belinda Grewar (the heads of Karoo Missions) have now merged with the local Methodist church here in Graaff-Reinet. The minister and the leaders of the church are very excited and passionate about reaching their community and have welcomed us as their extended family. Every morning we meet at 5:30 to pray for God to continue to unite us with the churches of the town. The Methodist congregation has also joined with us in many other ministries during the week. Included is a Sunday evening service where David and I are blessed to be able to assist in leading worship.
During the day I am busy teaching at Union High School. Class starts every morning at 7:15 and ends at 1:30 in the afternoon. I am currently in the junior school section (grade 5, 6, and 7) teaching Life Orientation and Religious Instruction. I also assist other teachers in subjects such as English, Reading, Math, Library, and Physical Education. I absolutely love the children and the staff! They have really accepted me as part of their family.
Life in the hostel is also going very well. The meals are very nice and so are the girls. However, I noticed that the junior school girls had no church group on the week nights, so I decided to start a small cell group with them on Monday nights. There are about 30 of them that attend. They are a lovely group of young girls! Please send lots of prayers their way!
On Tuesday and Friday evenings Belinda, David and I (and most of the time a few other brilliant people) lead youth meetings for the junior and senior schools. They are two non-denominational groups that combine most of our church children. From these two groups we plan to train up a “core” group of kids. We hope to challenge them to become strong spiritual leaders who can then challenge others. We also take them on special ministry trips to the hospital, drug and rehab center, and nursing home. They also attended our meetings in the Baptist church in Umazisake and the Church of Christ in Kroonvale. Please lift these children up as they grow in the faith!
On Sundays we are all over the show. Sometimes David and I lead music and share on our own, and other times we will assist Steve and Belinda in their services. Steve can preach any where from one to three times on any given Sunday, so it keeps us running! There are times, however, when we will just kick back, relax, and go to another service where we just sit and listen! That’s always nice.
As you can see writing an e-mail takes a tremendous amount of effort! Therefore, know that when you don’t hear from me it isn’t because I don’t care! I love hearing from all of you and enjoy reading letters from home. Please email me even if you don’t get an immediate response! I have also been assigned with the task of greeting everyone on behalf of Zorb and Judy Caryer, Steve and Belinda Grewar, and a town full of others!
Everyone continually asks what they can do to help and I continually ask for one thing: prayer! Please speak to God on our behalf. It is such a vital part of our ministry. Intercession is much more important than any gift or service you could provide! It is such an encouragement as well to know that people on the other side of the globe are thinking of us. Pray specifically for the leaders of Graaff-Reinet to stand together. Pray for soft and pliable hearts. Also pray that South Africa, as a whole, would be released of its crime and corruption and that God would reign supreme!
Thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement! It is appreciated more than you know!
I will write soon with any more news that comes my way!
Until then, may God bless you and keep you close to his heart until we meet again!
In Him,
Maria
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2/21/08: I heard from Maria today by phone and asked if she responds to
your letters. She says she answers EVERY letter, but apparently they are not getting through. She must walk 15 min to get to a shared cpu and be sure it's at a time there are people around so that she is safer. Then if the electric goes down, or someone is using the cpu, she cannot write. So you could imagine how disappointed she was to hear they might not be getting to you all!
She LOVES her work and everyday is anticipated with great joy! Maria
is also involved in Youth Bible Studies, Hospice with AIDS afflicted  Children and helps lead music with David in different churches.
In Christ,
Karen

Write Maria at THIS address:
maria.deangelo@yahoo.com

 

    

A  letter Maria wrote to her 9 year old niece, Grace, 2/27/08

Dear Grace,
Did you write that letter all on your own? If you did I would tell you that it was very nice and you did a very good job!
I am having a very nice time teaching school. I have lots of children that I teach. The grades I teach are 5, 6, and 7. All the children here play sports. Boys play rugby and cricket and girls play hockey and tennis. They also like to do swimming and athletics. I have very nice children but some of them are very naughty!
It sounds like you are having lots of fun at school. I hope that you are learning a lot of new things. I am glad you like your new house too. Nana said that it will be very pretty once it is done. Do you have your own room or are you sharing with one of your sisters?
How is uncle Mike doing? Do you see him very much?
Have you been going to church? And reading your Bible?
I miss you very much and hope you write me soon.
All my love,
Aunt Babe
PS tell your dad he does so miss me!
 

Graaff-Rienet, South Africa
 

Wed, 23 Jan 2008
Dear Friends and Family,
  Thank you for being so patient in waiting for a reply from my side! I am on duty at the moment, but thought I would send you all a quick update to say I am alive. : )
  David and I left Kansas City at 12:30 p.m. on Saturday the 12th of January and arrived in Port Elizabeth, South Africa at 9:30 p.m. on Sunday the 13th. We are now eight hours ahead of Kansas City.
  All of our flights went extremely well. We only had one lay-over the whole trip. David and I thought things couldn’t get any better. We arrived in Johannesburg and  went right through customs and passports and headed for the baggage claim. Everything was going so well . . . until we got to the carrousel. We stood watching luggage go around for almost 45 minutes until a one of the locals said, “I theenk yoor bags is lost”. In conclusion, all four of our bags were somewhere between Washington DC and Johannesburg.
  Our luggage finally arrived to us on Tuesday afternoon in Graaff-Reinet, and to our great joy everything was still in our suitcases and nothing was stolen. Praise the Lord! I was never so happy to have a few of my own things!
  I started school on Wednesday (I am teaching 20 classes in a seven day cycle) and met with some old friends and acquaintances. I stayed Monday through Sunday with the Grewars and finally moved into my little flat (apartment) the following Monday (the 21st). I am staying above the senior girl’s hostel (boarding house) behind the school. It’s just perfect for me!
  At the moment I am still busy settling in, so perhaps by next Monday I will have some more news for all of you. There are so many needs and so little time to do accomplish all of them. Please pray that I will have discernment in choosing my day-to-day schedule. Also pray that God will grant me the wisdom to know which activities and ministries HE needs me to perform. There are so many different needs and I will have to pick and choose which ones to be involved in.
  Above all I want everyone to know that I am doing extremely well! I feel so blessed to be here in South Africa, and so burdened for God’s people. Please continue to remember Graaff-Reinet in your prayers and may the peace of God which transcends all understanding guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus our Lord!
  God’s blessing,
  Maria


Testimony
Below is an except Maria wrote to her oldest sister, Dianna, who opened a Christian School called   'Apage ' , that Maria was heavily involved in as a young teen. Maria was home schooled at the time, and did her lessons at night and volunteered to teach reading and Character Training at the school, along with music and drama. She accompanied the teachers to teacher training classes and took every class she could. The school closed when Maria was 16 and it devastated her sister, Dianna. Dianna never understood the reason God even allowed the school to be open for 2 years and then close. This week, Dianna saw a glimmer of God's plan and I wanted to share this except with you from Maria, Jan 23, 2008...

It's amazing to think how God works through people and circumstances isn't it??? Steve was just telling me a story about a missionary who was from Sweden and had gone to the Congo to spread the word. While he and his wife were there they had a child, but the disease overtook the woman and she died when the baby was only a few weeks old. In the mean time the couple had been ministering to street urchins with another missionary couple from the States. The man became so angry at God for taking his wife and his ministry that he left the Congo and went back to Sweden. He also knew that he could not raise the little baby girl on his own so he pleaded with his American friends to raise her. They agreed and the man returned home. The little girl grew up in America with her new family and the missionary became a reclusive old man who lost his faith in God. 20 years later, when the little girl turned into a woman, she randomly attended a huge mission gathering in her State. There a small black man about 8 years older than herself stepped up to be the guest speaker. He was born in the Congo. He spoke about a Swedish missionary and his wife who led him to the Lord as an eight year old child. He also spoke of an American couple who had discipled him after the Swedes had left. This man from the Congo was now one of the biggest house church leaders in the country of the Congo, presiding over more than 30 churches. The young woman knew it was her father. Within the year she went back to Sweden and found him. She led him back to the Lord by telling him the story of the man from the Congo. In conclusion: you NEVER know why the Lord does some things and not others. AND you never know who you will touch in the end.

I don't know all the details of why God opened Agape and then closed it's doors, but I do know that if it hadn't opened I wouldn't be able to be doing the things I am doing here today. Just think: you are touching children in AFRICA! In Africa Dianna! How amazing is that?? You are apart of all of this. Wow! It blows me away to think of it.

 This is the town Maria is in:

Brutal murder shocks town
23/01/2008 08:01  - (SA)  

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Riëtte Olivier, Die Burger

Graaff Reinet - Residents of this historical town were shocked by the cruel murder of a police instructor.

Senior superintendent Erika Heunis, 36, was apparently raped before she was beaten to death with stones. There were supposedly three attackers, but by late on Tuesday police still refused to reveal any facts.

According to a source at the police academy where she worked, she was running as usual with police students along Mountain Avenue, a well-known hiking trial outside the town, when she was murdered about 3km from the turn-off to the road. Her attackers apparently laid in wait for her.

As usual, Heunis continued her jogging after the other students had turned back after about 2km.

Family was too shocked

"When she failed to return to the academy after a while, two police officers investigated," said the source, who wanted to remain anonymous.

These officers found her semi-naked body under a bush along the dirt road. Forensic specialists arrived at the crime scene from Port Elizabeth on Tuesday afternoon to investigate the murder.

Police spokesperson inspector Wena Theron was unable to explain why the specialists at Graaff Reinet did not investigate the scene.

"A full report will be issued on Wednesday morning," was all she said.

Heunis's family was too shocked to comment on the incident. A friend of the family, who wanted to remain anonymous, said they were very shocked and sad. "We don't know exactly what happened, so we don't want to comment," she said.

Kritzinger Mey, leader of the FF+ in the Eastern Cape, expressed his shock at the "cruel murder".

According to Mey, Heunis's husband Garth was attending a course in Johannesburg when the incident happened. He would have flown back to Port Elizabeht late on Tuesday, and would then have been taken to Graaff Reinet by helicopter.

Dave Mugglestone, principal at Union High School, which was attended by Heunis's two daughters Monique, 12, and Chanzelle, 13, said he got goose bumps when hearing about the incident.

"We are devastated. Her death is not only a loss for the children, but for the whole community. She was a wonderful woman."

Bronwyn Jacobs, a resident, said Heunis's death was proof that "one can never be too careful".

Another resident, Christa Hahn, said residents had been warned not to use the road where Heunis was attacked.

Two people were attacked and nearly raped along this road last year, said Captain Daan Zeelie, head of the detective branch at Graaff Reinet.

Henry Grootboom was arrested shortly afterwards. He was found guilty on assault charges.

By late on Tuesday afternoon no news was available about funeral arrangements


Maria is engaged to Dr. David Grewar of Port Elizabeth, South Africa

David Lives about 2-3 Hours from Maria where he is a practicing Dentist.
They visit on weekends and do music ministry together (David sings and play guitar).

Chris will be their BEST MAN at their wedding in MISSOURI, tentatively, Jan. 2009
Chris is a competition Ballroom Dancer.
As you know, one of Maria's passions is acting on Live Stage.
She has been in around 38 productions, but lacked dancing...until now...

Chris is teaching Maria ballroom dancing and wants her to be his new competition dance partner.....

But maybe that idea is not so great.

From Maria 2/27/08:
 

 This weekend we went to Natures Valley. It was so wonderful! I went down to PE on Friday with the school bus that was going to play tennis. I got to Chris's "pad" 3 and 1/2 hours later and we waited for David to get off work. Then we drove another 3 hours to natures. David's Aunt Uncle and Cousins were renting a holiday house there so we stayed with them. Saturday morning we went down to the beach and watched the guys surf. Then later we went for a hike and crazy David and Chris went swimming with some sharks we found in a gulley by the sea. I decided to play camera woman and climbed to the top of the cliff near by. We had SO much fun! When we got back to the house we made some really nice dinner and decided to have a "Soekie" (a dance). Chris taught me the cha-cha and the salsa! SO MUCH FUN! It ended up being me and Chris dancing all night while the others watched. Chris said that I am really good and follow better than any girl he's danced with. He also said that if I lived in PE he would ask me to be his new dance partner for competitions! Then after our dance we played trivial pursuit . I was put on David's team because it was the South African Edition. David won. Imagine that.  Anyway, the next day David and I took a beautiful long walk along the beach before we left. Then I had to go with his Aunt and Cousin all the way back to Graaff-Reinet 5 hours while David went with Chris back to PE.

SEE engagement Photos HERE

Chris Bolton will be their Best Man.
Chris does Safaris and Tours in South Africa...

Hope you will visit him...
 

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